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Men, STSG Wants You!
From time to time, I get letters from readers wanting a man’s advice. I can only do but so much. It’s like being the single mother of a young boy. At the end of the day, she’s not a man and can only teach her son but so much.
SO…I’m looking for some men who are [...]
Are You Settling for a Black Man?
“I wonder if I should lower my standards and date a black man.”
No, this isn’t me playing devil’s advocate. This is a direct quote from a friend. She is beautiful, hella smart, body banging like a benzie and you guessed right…she’s single.
Her case is like most – she is single because she chooses to be, [...]
STSG Pet Peeve: Men Who Can’t Drive
Very few things I’m a stickler about. I’ve learned to give and take when dating someone. You can either learn to accept or ignore or dumb them because of their quirks.
He snores in his sleep, I can get past that. He clips his toes nails on the couch, I’ll just make sure I’m not in [...]
He was Addicted to Sex, But Not How You Think
He sat across from me on our first date and made a shocking confession.
“I am addicted to sex.”
For some reason, I didn’t react. I wasn’t disgusted. In fact I believe I even smirked.
“Really?” I never had someone tell me they were a sex addict. Not sure that a first date was the best time either [...]
Telling a Man You are Taken Means Nothing to Him
Every woman gets badgered at least once a week by a guy, who under different circumstances may be nice, but can’t take a hint.
There once was a time (probably back when dinosaurs roamed the earth) when a man would approach a woman and she could politely decline. No harm, no foul. Both parties would go [...]
Why Don’t Men Take Birth Control?
It’s safe to say that women hold the burden of responsibility when it comes to preventing pregnancy during intercourse. Condoms are fair ground. Both parties should have a stash readily available. However, most dudes will automatically assume that the woman is on birth control. What’s even sadder is that he doesn’t bring this up [...]
Men, Women only want you for your potential
Forget love.
People have convinced themselves that love is the moving factor when it come to relationships. Not true, especially in the case of women searching for a man.
Fellas, if you haven’t realized by now please take note:
Sure, women may be attracted to who and what you are presently but they are really thinking about what and [...]
Women do not like Weak Men (Period, end of story!)
Fellas, if you have used this argument: “I’m a good dude; problem is chicks don’t want a good man.” Chances are you have convinced yourself that GOOD is a nice way of saying what you really are-WEAK.
Now, not all good men are weak but a majority of them are and they think that is the [...]
Are you Trying to Kill Me?
One early morning, a couple weeks ago, I was awaken by a frantic phone call from a girlfriend.
“SG, this dude is trying to kill me?”
“Huh?” I jumped out of my stupor. “Call the police!”
“No, not like bang, bang kill me. His ass is a slipper.”
She’d been seeing this guy for a couple weeks. That night [...]
The Story of Jesus Whore
Dear Reader -
This marks the debut of a recurring tale about a young woman (late 20s) whose fight with good and evil results in her praying to God for a man, sleeping around, repenting for her sins and starting all over again.
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Ladies and gentlemen, this is the story of Jesus Whore.
She is smart, funny and [...]
