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Married Men Who Don’t Wear Rings (Red Flag #1!)

I don’t get tangled up much in celebrity lives and fuck up but I can’t help but pay some attention to the recent Dream and Christina Milian debacle. I feel sorry for the chick. She spent her whole career being the good girl (come on “dip it low” was kinda a joke) to marrying a [...]

Men, STSG Wants You!

From time to time, I get letters from readers wanting a man’s advice. I can only do but so much. It’s like being the single mother of a young boy. At the end of the day, she’s not a man and can only teach her son but so much. SO…I’m looking for some men who [...]

Are You Settling for a Black Man?

“I wonder if I should lower my standards and date a black man.” No, this isn’t me playing devil’s advocate. This is a direct quote from a friend. She is beautiful, hella smart, body banging like a benzie and you guessed right…she’s single. Her case is like most – she is single because she chooses [...]

STSG Pet Peeve: Men Who Can’t Drive

Very few things I’m a stickler about. I’ve learned to give and take when dating someone. You can either learn to accept or ignore or dumb them because of their quirks. He snores in his sleep, I can get past that. He clips his toes nails on the couch, I’ll just make sure I’m not [...]

He was Addicted to Sex, But Not How You Think

He sat across from me on our first date and made a shocking confession. “I am addicted to sex.” For some reason, I didn’t react. I wasn’t disgusted. In fact I believe I even smirked. “Really?” I never had someone tell me they were a sex addict. Not sure that a first date was the [...]