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The Key To Happiness: Knowing When To Move On

I can’t lie to you. I’m definitely in a transitional period in my life.  I even was considering the dramatic act of cutting all my hair off, Caesar-style. I told my friends about this. The women all understood. For some reason, women always turn to the scissors in hopes of “getting a fresh start”. Manny [...]

Young & Dumb: How 20-Something Women Ruin Their Relationships

My next-door neighbor treats her boyfriend like crap…and he allows it. There’s nothing really to say about the dynamic of their relationship other than it’s pretty messed up but it seems to be working for them so to, it is what it is. What I do find comical is that she is now starting a [...]

Never Ask a Man What He Thinks About You

His name was Fred. My aunt hooked us up on a blind date. He was tall and handsome. It’s always the cute ones that end up being weird. He was in his 30s but had a bullshit job.  He lived in a sparsely furnished studio apartment. He refused to eat vegetables and threw out pennies. [...]

Recession Love: Let’s Shack Up

I always considered moving in with someone to be monumental. For starters I don’t really see myself living with a boo before marriage, possibly during an engagement but no sooner than that. Sure, couples move in together all the time; many of them with no intentions on getting wed. Still, I can’t downplay shacking up [...]

Jump Offs Exist (Even Knows This)

I woke up this morning to learn that the internet was in an uproar (well just black women on the internet) over’s new men’s blog It’s a Man’s World and its debut post “The Truth about Jump Offs” written by journalist/editor Jozen Cummings. Jozen is a friend and told me about the post before [...]