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Always the Baby Mama But Never the Bride

You thought you were set for life. You popped out the seeds of a NBA multi-million dollar man. You know him better than he knows himself. Your break up two years ago wasn’t anything that you thought would last forever. Then one day you get a text from him, not a phone call, in person [...]

Tell Me the Truth, You Just Don’t Want To Be With Me!

Breaking up is hard to do, especially when you are the one trying to the find the words to gently let the other person down.
Years ago, I dated this guy. There were signs that he was on the fence about where we were going. So, I took the opportunity to hit the brakes. I couldn’t [...]

He was Addicted to Sex, But Not How You Think

He sat across from me on our first date and made a shocking confession.

“I am addicted to sex.”

For some reason, I didn’t react. I wasn’t disgusted. In fact I believe I even smirked.

“Really?” I never had someone tell me they were a sex addict. Not sure that a first date was the best time either [...]

What to do when your Ex asks “What’s Wrong with Me?” (Part I)

There’s this thing that I do when I’ve stopped seeing a guy-I erase his number from my phone. Since I don’t answer numbers I don’t know I consider this to be my fool proof way to not having to hear said guy’s voice again (especially if it ended badly). Ok, the real reason why I [...]