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Six Words Men Should Never Say to a Woman

There are some words women long to hear from their man. “I love you” tops the list followed in no particular order by “I need you”, “I miss you”, “Will you marry me?” All that is cute but let’s talk about the words women don’t want to hear. Not that the easy ones “I’m Gay”, [...]

Black Cougars are the New White Woman

Ladies, there’s a war going on and we don’t even realize it. Cougars aren’t just white women anymore. More and more older sistas are sharpening their claws and going for men 33 and under. I don’t know about you but that’s stepping into my territory. Sista Cougars are growing in numbers and the crazy thing [...]

Why are You With This Guy? (The Joke That Doesn’t Work Both Ways)

You are the new girlfriend and you’re being introduced to his friends. “Oh my god, you are gorgeous. Why are you with this guy?” You are somewhat embarrassed. How are you supposed to respond? “He has a big dick, that why I’m with him.” Of course not. Instead you smirk and make noises like you [...]

Women do not like Weak Men (Period, end of story!)

Fellas, if you have used this argument: “I’m a good dude; problem is chicks don’t want a good man.” Chances are you have convinced yourself that GOOD is a nice way of saying what you really are-WEAK. Now, not all good men are weak but a majority of them are and they think that is [...]

SATC Has Ruined Your Dating Life

This weekend I had the pleasure of watching the Sex and the City feature film for the first time. It wasn’t a pleasure because of the film itself but because of the company I was in. An opinionated, Mr. Big-hating, Aidan-loving, heterosexual man, who paused the film throughout to blast the character’s decisions and reiterate [...]