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I’d Cheat On My Husband

No marriage is perfect yet whenever we hear of infidelity we automatically assume that it is the man that is stepping out. It’s almost as if it’s acceptable. . “Oh, he cheated. That dog. Please pass the salt.” . But let it be a woman who cheats on her husband and she becomes lower than [...]

Don’t Marry For Love, Marry For Money

If people marry for love and 50% of them end up divorced perhaps we should start marrying for other reasons. I, for one, am leaning very close to marrying for money. I recall a cool dude who told me that he wouldn’t mind if a woman was interested in him for his money and all [...]

Tell Me the Truth, You Just Don’t Want To Be With Me!

Breaking up is hard to do, especially when you are the one trying to the find the words to gently let the other person down. Years ago, I dated this guy. There were signs that he was on the fence about where we were going. So, I took the opportunity to hit the brakes. I [...]

Dear SG: Should I Celebrate My One Year Anniversary?

I received this letter last week but had to get some clarification on the issue at hand. Below, you will find the correspondence with the reader “One Year Later”. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Dear Single Girl – Next week is my one year anniversary. I’ve been thinking what I want to do with my guy but my friends [...]

You’re Single Until You’re Married

Folks ask me all the time, “SG what are you going to do when you start dating someone. Will you still be ‘says the single girl’”? My response: “Yes!” “But you won’t be single” they say. “Yes the hell I will be. You are single until you are married.” Very few people understand what I [...]