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“My Boyfriend” vs “My Man”

Women who get hit on are often forced to answer the question: “Are you single?” To which you answer, whether its true or not: “No, I have a boyfriend.” Well, recently I gave that answer to a clearly older man whose comeback kinda left me stumped. “That’s a problem. You got a boyfriend. What you [...]

Men, STSG Wants You!

From time to time, I get letters from readers wanting a man’s advice. I can only do but so much. It’s like being the single mother of a young boy. At the end of the day, she’s not a man and can only teach her son but so much. SO…I’m looking for some men who [...]

Always a Boyfriend, Never a Husband

We always take pity upon women who are always the bridesmaid and never the bride. 27 dresses drove that point home. The chick was in love with her boss, who fell for her sister and ended up pushing away a guy who did like her (he was actually a reporter doing a story on her [...]

I’d Cheat On My Husband

No marriage is perfect yet whenever we hear of infidelity we automatically assume that it is the man that is stepping out. It’s almost as if it’s acceptable. . “Oh, he cheated. That dog. Please pass the salt.” . But let it be a woman who cheats on her husband and she becomes lower than [...]

STSG Pet Peeve: Men Who Can’t Drive

Very few things I’m a stickler about. I’ve learned to give and take when dating someone. You can either learn to accept or ignore or dumb them because of their quirks. He snores in his sleep, I can get past that. He clips his toes nails on the couch, I’ll just make sure I’m not [...]