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“My Boyfriend” vs “My Man”
Women who get hit on are often forced to answer the question:
“Are you single?”
To which you answer, whether its true or not:
“No, I have a boyfriend.”
Well, recently I gave that answer to a clearly older man whose comeback kinda left me stumped.
“That’s a problem. You got a boyfriend. What you need is a man. No [...]
Men, STSG Wants You!
From time to time, I get letters from readers wanting a man’s advice. I can only do but so much. It’s like being the single mother of a young boy. At the end of the day, she’s not a man and can only teach her son but so much.
SO…I’m looking for some men who are [...]
Always a Boyfriend, Never a Husband
We always take pity upon women who are always the bridesmaid and never the bride. 27 dresses drove that point home. The chick was in love with her boss, who fell for her sister and ended up pushing away a guy who did like her (he was actually a reporter doing a story on her [...]
I’d Cheat On My Husband
No marriage is perfect yet whenever we hear of infidelity we automatically assume that it is the man that is stepping out. It’s almost as if it’s acceptable.
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“Oh, he cheated. That dog. Please pass the salt.”
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But let it be a woman who cheats on her husband and she becomes lower than dirt. How dare she [...]
STSG Pet Peeve: Men Who Can’t Drive
Very few things I’m a stickler about. I’ve learned to give and take when dating someone. You can either learn to accept or ignore or dumb them because of their quirks.
He snores in his sleep, I can get past that. He clips his toes nails on the couch, I’ll just make sure I’m not in [...]
“I Call Her My Fianceé Because She’s More Than My Girlfriend”
If you ever want to know what’s on the mind of a man go out to dinner with a bunch of guys. About an hour into it, you will start to hear their crazy rationale, doggish behavior and insecurities.
The keys to making this work: liquor, good food and great company. You can’t jump down their [...]
Six Words Men Should Never Say to a Woman
There are some words women long to hear from their man. “I love you” tops the list followed in no particular order by “I need you”, “I miss you”, “Will you marry me?” All that is cute but let’s talk about the words women don’t want to hear. Not that the easy ones “I’m Gay”, [...]
Men, Women only want you for your potential
Forget love.
People have convinced themselves that love is the moving factor when it come to relationships. Not true, especially in the case of women searching for a man.
Fellas, if you haven’t realized by now please take note:
Sure, women may be attracted to who and what you are presently but they are really thinking about what and [...]
Why are You With This Guy? (The Joke That Doesn’t Work Both Ways)
You are the new girlfriend and you’re being introduced to his friends.
“Oh my god, you are gorgeous. Why are you with this guy?”
You are somewhat embarrassed. How are you supposed to respond?
“He has a big dick, that why I’m with him.”
Of course not. Instead you smirk and make noises like you are going to say [...]
If Jesus Could Wife a Whore, Why Can’t You Wife a Lady with a Baby?
Talk about double standards.
There are folks who are single, yearning to be coupled up yet scoff at the idea of dating a perfect candidate just because he or she has kids.
