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The Birth Control Blues
Over the holidays I hosted a get together at my house. It was a great mix of friends and family. As I hopped from room to room, checking on my guests and their needs, I overheard some starling words:
“When SG was on birth control, she lost a lot of weight.”
Imagine my shock and horror.
“Mom, are [...]
Why Do Women Fear the Strip Club?
I have a confession: I like going to the strip club.
First time I saw the voluptuous ass of a women clapping on a stage adorned in nothing more than butt floss I stood amazed along the back wall of Magic City. It was one of the whore’s birthday’s so the runway was covered in a [...]
Jump Offs Exist (Even Essence.com Knows This)
I woke up this morning to learn that the internet was in an uproar (well just black women on the internet) over Essence.com’s new men’s blog It’s a Man’s World and its debut post “The Truth about Jump Offs” written by journalist/editor Jozen Cummings.
Jozen is a friend and told me about the post before it [...]
Dear SG: Are All Women The Same In Bed?
Dear Single Girl -
I want to know if men think that women are all the same in the bedroom? Your thoughts? I’ve heard guys say it and I want to hear others’ opinions – Kinyetta
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“I don’t even get the point of the question. Same in terms of what? Two boobs and a cooch? Well, if [...]
Do You Share Your Toys?
Early on in most women’s sex life, they think the act of sex is limited to kissing, foreplay (oral but only she receives), missionary and doggy style. But after a couple years of playing the good girl and realizing that your needs aren’t being met because:
- He’s doing what he wants
- You don’t know your [...]
Whose Job Is It To Have Condoms?
On more than one occasion I’ve found myself hot and bothered but sexless because neither he nor I had condoms. In the heat of the moment what usually happens is you start up then pause to check if you have a condom on hand. Well, when you don’t your will is tested:
“Should I?”
“Just this once?”
“Nah, [...]
How to Handle a Jump Off (VIDEO)
I know I said I’m retiring the term “Jump Off” and I don’t even like Seinfeld but I must give respect where it’s due. In the scene below, Jerry and Elaine stumble across some porn and that leads to a very open yet adult conversation about them having no strings attached sex…
Some of out there, [...]
Maxwell Makes Me Wanna Sweat
Not for a long time have I been so moved by someone’s music but the new Maxwell album takes me back to my younger hopeless romantic days when I’d lay in the bed in the dark listening to a track on repeat thinking about the man in my life. Then there were the times when [...]
The Groupie Guidelines
This week is the NBA draft which means dozens of parties, hundreds of professional or soon-to-be professional athletes and thousands of groupies will descend upon New York City.
This year I’ve decided to give the ladies on a quest to snag a Baller during special events (i.e. Draft Parties, All-Star weekend, Super Bowl Weekend, etc) whether [...]
I’m Not a Lesbian, But My Next Lover May Be
I never gave dating a woman much thought. I have imagined what sex with a woman would be like as opposed to my pounding, sweat drops hitting me in my eye, grunting, bed breaking sexcapades with men. For some reason I assume sex with a woman would be softer, longer, more intense cause unlike men, [...]
