Young & Dumb: How 20-Something Women Ruin Their Relationships

My next-door neighbor treats her boyfriend like crap…and he allows it. There’s nothing really to say about the dynamic of their relationship other than it’s pretty messed up but it seems to be working for them so to, it is what it is. What I do find comical is that she is now starting a dating video series where she gives her take on men and relationships.

I’ve heard this woman cuss her man out through the walls…

“How the f*ck you gonna bring Chinese food. I wanted Checkers!”

Really, women are talking to their men like that these days?

Men, you are tolerating this?

I’m not saying that women should be passive and sit back. Lord knows I’m far from a doormat but there is something that I’ve learned with age: there is a certain way to treat a man both publically and privately.  Most women don’t learn this until they’ve cried countless times to their friends “What’s wrong with me? Why am I single.”

Some women want to be strong and independent and there is nothing wrong with that but you can’t be inflexible when it comes to men. If a man is really interested in you he will be willing to give and take. A man who is stuck in his ways will come around if he cares about losing you.

When it comes to my neighbor, fact is she is a baby. At 25, she thinks she knows everything there is to know about men hence why she is doing this show. We’ve had some friendly conversations here and there. Part of me wants to sit her down and tell her that the way she is treating the dude is so out of pocket. I also want to pull him aside and grab his crotch to see if there are any balls there.

Young women these days are either too ridged or too weak.  For every girl like my neighbor there is a girl who doesn’t know crap about a relationship, most notably the public social cues. You know there are still some women who will not introduce themselves to the group unless their man does it. Girl, you are going to just sit in the corner the whole night under him and not speak to anyone. Where did he find you at?

For both types of young and naïve women the same thing happens before they find a good inner-balance: someone breaks their heart. It will only be when she is older and had time to experience different types of men that she will realize the error of her young, dumb ways.

… Says The Single Girl