Comments on: Why You Can’t Find a GOOD Man

By: ZR

ZR — Sat, 09 Jan 2010 14:13:21 +0000

quite true. i can’t not agree with ur post. but there are some nice and kind girls that are still single and the problem not in their ego or kind of hightened demands towards males. some girls fear from having relationship. bcs of their shyness and as time passes this fear is growing pretty steadily in them not letting them even to think of possible closeness with opposite sex. lack of confidence, shyness and other pschycologycal barriers has grown in them preventing them from seizure of the chance when they meet good man. i know pretty good number of good girls who are still single and lonely but they could be really kind and nice wives and mothers if men they had met could convince them that they were in reliable and safe hands and would be happy together. the men could wait a little longer and be more patient. then they could be the happiest men and husbands. these category of girls need someone who can make them to beleive in themselves and support them morally. they need a trust.

By: Khrysii

Khrysii — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 17:16:33 +0000

I really think that this is true. No matter what I have been through in my past relationships with guys, I have risen above it. I do no allow my past to hinder me from moving into the future. I know that there are good men out there and I have no problem waiting until he makes his way over to me. Patience is a vertue. I love being single. It is time for me to reflect on what went wrong, what needs to be changed, and what I want. Thus I make me better in the end.

By: Sylvester

Sylvester — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 15:20:32 +0000

I am a good Man, never been in a relationship, never kissed, held in a woman’s arms other than my mom’s. The thing I noticed is that alot of the woman I meet and am interested in have just gotten out of a long bad relationship and are on the grounds of “men suck Im going to live dramma free and be single” They say this but within a week or two I talk to them and they are in another relationship…. Here am I… Waiting on God and I still have joy!!

By: lolfail

lolfail — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 22:52:37 +0000

I can agree to a certain extent, but I doubt all women measure men according to their own success. I generally think that woman throw on the “Educated and Beautiful” title, thanks to many men being worried about gold diggers. I myself am educated and beautiful, but I don’t have to flaunt that because I know who I am, and I know I am not a gold digger. In the same light, you have male gold-diggers out there just like female ones (and by gold I do mean money and anything else that can be taken if given the opportunity). You got this group of men who are afraid of a woman who can take care of herself (she’s too independent), then you got this group of men who think every chick is out to get their wallet, then you have the “good men”, which seem to all be taken. Sure there are other types of men not in those catagories, but it’s pretty hard to find them in this day. I am single, BUT at the same time, I’m definitally not looking at this time. I’m trying to get my own things straight before jumping into a relationship with someone else, but before I got focused on continuing my education, I ran into every catagory except “Good Men”. I stopped caring about finding one, cause that is a waste of time, and started caring about making myself happy. If there is one for me, it’ll happen then if it doesn’t oh well, it was a good run cause life is too short to cry over being alone when I’m surrounded by family and good friends. I’m sure the “Good man” theory is just like air, it exists but you can’t see it and I damn sure haven’t seen it around here.

By: Kinyetta

Kinyetta — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 20:25:33 +0000

Oh! One more thing… just some words to ponder.. “Love is not merely gazing into each others eyes, but gazing in the same direction.”

By: Kinyetta

Kinyetta — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 20:23:46 +0000

Hey David! Not gonna chew you out buddy! I agree wholeheardtedly!! I wish there were more guys out there like you who would pick up a Bible and read up on God’s way of how a relationship/courtship/ marriage should be developed. My problem is..there are guys who say that they know, but as soon as we get by our lonesome, he’s going in for the kill.. SEX! I’m like.. What the mess? I know that there is a guy that God has designed especially for me and by me jumping the gun on God’s plan, I have had to endure some pretty rough times… I’ve always been a tad bit confused on how pro-active a woman should be when it comes to “finding” the right guy. Over the past few months I’ve learned to stop asking God for a mate. Instead my request has been, Lord PREPARE me for him when he comes!!!! That helps take your mind off of that man, and on what you can do to better yourself for him!!!

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By: Ce-Ce

Ce-Ce — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 02:52:52 +0000

the real topic should be just stop looking and look forward to loving and appreciating yourself more…hmmm maybe self betterment is best…

By: Ally

Ally — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 23:37:11 +0000

THANK YOU FOR THE TRUTH! I’m am a 31 yr old woman who has been trying to tell my friends these truths for years. If they would just heed this advise maybe they wouldn’t be single and miserable! I am single and happily dating some wonderful men. I get relationship offers all the time because I hold these truths near and dear to my heart. Because of this, I know that the right man that God has chosen will find me when the time is right.

By: mzahmad

mzahmad — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 00:08:38 +0000

great posting. i’m currently writing book on dating and allot of what he’s saying i believe and write about…

good stuff!