Women do not like Weak Men (Period, end of story!)
Fellas, if you have used this argument: “I’m a good dude; problem is chicks don’t want a good man.” Chances are you have convinced yourself that GOOD is a nice way of saying what you really are-WEAK.
Now, not all good men are weak but a majority of them are and they think that is the reason why they get -ished on. While it is true that most women like a guy with a little bit of asshole in him (it shows that he can’t be pushed around and will cause a ruckus if need be) we don’t really want the bad guy. We settle for the bad guy ’cause he has stronger legs to stand on than the nice (translation: weak guy). With the bad guy you know what he is about.
Let’s define weakness:
WEAK
Function:
adjective
Etymology:
Middle English weike, from Old Norse veikr; akin to Old English w?can to yield, Greek eikein to give way, Sanskrit vijate he speeds, flees
Date:
14th century
1: lacking strength: as a: deficient in physical vigor : feeble , debilitated b: not able to sustain or exert much weight, pressure, or strain c: not able to resist external force or withstand attack d: easily upset or nauseated <a weak stomach>
If you are a weak man chances are you are:
- Passive
- Indecisive
Passiveness isn’t that big a deal if every now and then you call someone out (to their face) and speak your mind when a limit is reached. Who wants a punk ass man?
The real killer is indecisiveness.
If you are indecisive (”I don’t know what I want for dinner, honey what do you want for dinner?”) your woman will lose all respect for you.
Once you have lost her respect, you have lost her!
If you look at the traditional way of things men were the hunters and women the nurturers. Women still want to take care of a man who can take care of them, a man who can make decisions. As women, we don’t have to agree but it’s nice to know that your man has a vision, a goal, a road he is set on, a plan of attack.
In the great cheestastic sci-fi flick, Species, the lead character is this alien-human woman who is on the search for a man to impregnate her. She breaks free from her government lab and hits the streets, giving her ass to any man she finds.
But, there is a catch. With her super aliens senses she can tell if her prospective mate is weak. If he is weak, she kills them.
This poor guy had diabetes. (LMAO!)
Like her, I too wish that sometimes I could off a weak ass dude, tie cement blocks to his feet and send him to the bottom of the ocean. Trust, that would be much easier than telling him to his face “You are a punk and you need to grow some balls.”
Ladies, let’s not fool these men anymore. When you dumb a dude don’t say: “I think you are great guy but I am not ready for a relationship.”
TELL THE TRUTH!
“You are too bitch-like for me. Get some bass in your voice, make clear decisions and stick to them without my input. Oh and while you at it, treat me like a lady you want, not a woman you need.”
There, I won’t even charge you for that. Take it, say it and hopefully you can save a man’s life.
- SG
Raychel Celeste
Monday, 13th April 2009 at 11:25 AM
Haha, I love this. Great post.
LossAngeles
Monday, 13th April 2009 at 11:13 PM
Was a stupid ass post. The honest truth is I told my girl of 8 years I was tired of her shallow mindset as of late and she decided to dump my ass. She’s stubborn and has pulled this before. The difference is this time she’s acting like the 26 year old and I in my 40’s and I’m not falling for the ‘come over without calling ‘ move again.
Suzanne Woodstock
Friday, 17th April 2009 at 5:05 PM
LMAO at this. Nothing funnier than the truth!
Mark
Wednesday, 22nd April 2009 at 10:20 AM
I’m diggin this post. Had a convo with a lady friend of mine who is dating a guy she considers “weak”…and yes he may very well be “weak” in her eyes, but to MOST he is probably just a nice mild mannered guy…last time I checked isn’t that what women are looking for anyway?
From a male’s POV women don’t go “seeking” weak men they can run over and boss around but that doesn’t stop them from doing it and turning a man into their “bitch”. That’s why we tell our boys “Man, she has TURNED you soft”. I don’t want to make it seem like I’m blaming the women b/c their are plenty of men suffering CBD (look it up) prior to women getting to them. But some women (if not MOST) are demanding as hell and are more indecisive than they let on, which is a man’s migraine.
I know you’ve heard the phrase, “Hell hath no fury….” men know if we don’t do what our women find pleasing then we have to feel the wrath. Really, our main goal IS to please our woman, that is what we would love to do forever and always. Unless you have a complete asshole who gets off on pissing his woman off.
“You are too bitch-like for me. Get some bass in your voice, make clear decisions and stick to them without my input. Oh and while you at it, treat me like a lady you want, not a woman you need.”
It’s a win/lose situation for men…we have the bass, we are able to make decisions WITHOUT your input, we would love to go about things as scheduled but that is the problem…WOMEN ALWAYS WANT INPUT! I don’t know how many times I’ve made a very sound decision when in a relationship only to hear, “Had you asked me then we wouldn’t have to go through this”…or “Does my input not matter??” then get upset and claim we aren’t treating you right…WHAT THE HELL DO YOU WANT?? lol Men just take the input…you DON’T have to use it. I’ve just come to the conclusion that women have this “image” of what a man SHOULD be (where/who the hell is this man)and twisting it with what a man IS.
All we want is an EGO BOOST: to feel appreciated and needed (Wanted), feel like we are the sexiest thing in your eyes (Desired), feel strong and intelligent(Powerful), and know that our woman is loyal and faithful no matter how bad we fuck up (Security/Support/Trust). How hard is that for a woman to give? Trust you will have that “STRONG” man you want if some women stop trying to be the “Man” in the relationship.
Baby Doll
Sunday, 19th July 2009 at 7:17 AM
haha..I love the post.. however, I would have to agree w/ Mark on this one. It could go 50/50 though.
I am a 25 year old woman and all relationships are different of course however, Mark pointed out some GREAT points about woman..lol.. Either way it goes.. we would still be upset if you didn’t include us..haha.
sylkiifeather
Friday, 11th September 2009 at 5:14 AM
we women are complicated lol. we want a man who knows what he wants but at the same time is caring enough to include us in decisions. so when a woman asks a man what he wants for dinner…we want you to have your own opinions. me personally, i want a man who is street smart. who is strong mentally and knows how to play this game called life.
Greg
Monday, 14th September 2009 at 4:35 AM
Women will never respect a man they can “run over”…cut your losses and move on!
Anonymous
Saturday, 13th March 2010 at 4:11 PM
Let me get this straight, you expressed a desire to murder men because of perceived weakness? I just want to make sure. You don’t deserve a man of any substance.
Anonymous
Saturday, 13th March 2010 at 4:14 PM
It sounds like you fit into this guy’s description, as well as the rest of the people who left comments.
http://relationships.blog-city.com/women_are_programmed_to_favor_strong_men.htm#76
helen
Wednesday, 17th March 2010 at 10:40 PM
I really undersand weak guys but at the same time I cant stand that . I cant go any futher with a guy that i have been seeing for 3 years and if their our conflicts, which happens in life. He runs or walks away and leaves there. And by the way hes 50 years old.I care about him but I know I cant be happy,
Stallion
Thursday, 24th June 2010 at 9:25 AM
Love this post. I totally agree. Sissies are bad news for women. Real men are rare.