Women do not like Weak Men (Period, end of story!)
Fellas, if you have used this argument: “I’m a good dude; problem is chicks don’t want a good man.” Chances are you have convinced yourself that GOOD is a nice way of saying what you really are-WEAK.
Now, not all good men are weak but a majority of them are and they think that is the reason why they get -ished on. While it is true that most women like a guy with a little bit of asshole in him (it shows that he can’t be pushed around and will cause a ruckus if need be) we don’t really want the bad guy. We settle for the bad guy ’cause he has stronger legs to stand on than the nice (translation: weak guy). With the bad guy you know what he is about.
Let’s define weakness:
WEAK
Function:
adjective
Etymology:
Middle English weike, from Old Norse veikr; akin to Old English w?can to yield, Greek eikein to give way, Sanskrit vijate he speeds, flees
Date:
14th century
1: lacking strength: as a: deficient in physical vigor : feeble , debilitated b: not able to sustain or exert much weight, pressure, or strain c: not able to resist external force or withstand attack d: easily upset or nauseated <a weak stomach>
If you are a weak man chances are you are:
- Passive
- Indecisive
Passiveness isn’t that big a deal if every now and then you call someone out (to their face) and speak your mind when a limit is reached. Who wants a punk ass man?
The real killer is indecisiveness.
If you are indecisive (“I don’t know what I want for dinner, honey what do you want for dinner?”) your woman will lose all respect for you.
Once you have lost her respect, you have lost her!
If you look at the traditional way of things men were the hunters and women the nurturers. Women still want to take care of a man who can take care of them, a man who can make decisions. As women, we don’t have to agree but it’s nice to know that your man has a vision, a goal, a road he is set on, a plan of attack.
In the great cheestastic sci-fi flick, Species, the lead character is this alien-human woman who is on the search for a man to impregnate her. She breaks free from her government lab and hits the streets, giving her ass to any man she finds.
But, there is a catch. With her super aliens senses she can tell if her prospective mate is weak. If he is weak, she kills them.
This poor guy had diabetes. (LMAO!)
Like her, I too wish that sometimes I could off a weak ass dude, tie cement blocks to his feet and send him to the bottom of the ocean. Trust, that would be much easier than telling him to his face “You are a punk and you need to grow some balls.”
Ladies, let’s not fool these men anymore. When you dumb a dude don’t say: “I think you are great guy but I am not ready for a relationship.”
TELL THE TRUTH!
“You are too bitch-like for me. Get some bass in your voice, make clear decisions and stick to them without my input. Oh and while you at it, treat me like a lady you want, not a woman you need.”
There, I won’t even charge you for that. Take it, say it and hopefully you can save a man’s life.
- SG
pinkbutterfly
Saturday, 4th February 2012 at 12:36 PM
I think that most women think this way. We cant help it its just for the survival of our species. We subconciensly look for somebody who has good genes can protect us and a baby and provide for us. I think that selfconfidence plays an important role in attraction for both men and women. Men dont like a doormat as a girl either. Maybe in the beginning but after that they can get irritated and bored with her.
And overly rude can show a lack of confidence as well.
I think men dont like other weak men eather.
mohamed iqbal
Saturday, 18th February 2012 at 4:05 PM
dear sir i am 49 yer last two yer are ihave not sexs feeling and no stenth.but i am last ten yer dibatics pation.pleas help me.
TheTruth
Thursday, 15th March 2012 at 12:59 PM
Physically stronger women are not attracted to physically weaker men, nor are physically taller women attracted to physically shorter men. Every woman that talks about her ideal man has emphasized that fact. Then you see her actual choice of man – the fact is reinforced. To claim/argue otherwise is sheer ignorance. Women seek at least an equal or greater, not less. It’s a fact!
bre
Monday, 2nd April 2012 at 2:09 AM
It’s almost like you looked into my mind and heart and wrote this article. thank you for articulating this so well!
brian
Wednesday, 4th April 2012 at 12:46 AM
Men, if you are decisive these women applauding this article will whine and cry about how you do not ask their opinion. Classic feminist hypocrisy, decades of complaining about men in being in charge, and now derogatory comments about men and symbolism that you are worthless and should be offed if you do not fit their ideal.F@#CK em. Do not date high conflict women like this one, if you do she needs to give real good nasty head to keep her around at all. Be careful she will work the victim angle if she can get something, or for revenge when you can’t take her bitching her lies, hypocrisy and leech like nature. Pussy Lust is not worth it.
Find a woman of integrity who has self -respect but can actually care and love, not the fake love of lust, and what she can get out this. But the kind of selfless love that you would give women. You deserve it even if you are only a male.
Be careful to find a good woman you must observe her actions and how she treats others not by what she says, most of the entitled punkettes lie up a storm if there is something they can get and there are a lot of them. Choose carefully my friends.
brian
Wednesday, 4th April 2012 at 12:55 AM
Men do not like bitchy high conflict hypocritical women ( PERIOD….END OF STORY)
YOHAMI
Saturday, 14th April 2012 at 12:18 PM
Yes. Good stuff.
Alex
Thursday, 26th April 2012 at 4:15 PM
Sick and tired of women expecting everything from guys. Be this and be that while they should look themselves in the mirror. Too often the man has to pay for dinner, be entertaining, funny, intelligent , well mannered, strong, beautiful, educated, have financial stability etc….
Rarely will we ask from women all these attributes. All we ask for is someone beautiful and loving. I couldn t care less if she s rich or poor, educated or not, strong or weak etc…
Of course there are a few good women but unfortunately expectations for guys are very high nowadays.