Comments on: Men, Women only want you for your potential

By: Kevin

Kevin — Sun, 23 Aug 2009 04:25:35 +0000

Been there already with a woman who thought she would be the glamour girl of the neighborhood, financed by me. I eventually saw she wanted my wallet most of all, so I divorced her. Go sell yourself to some other chump that gets excited by what is on the outside. She was an abusive nag and a narcissist on the inside. Go make your own future financially. I am here for love that is for better or worse.

By: JoeBmore

JoeBmore — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 19:28:25 +0000

Interesting article. I suspect there are a lot of truths in it.

I do agree that most men want the finished product now. So when a woman is yelling and nagging him (judging). Men instantly size a woman up and down. Then they think to themselves about every single insecurity that you have told him.

Then he deems you unworthy to judge him. Then the fighting starts. I do believe that a lot of women to talk as if they are coming from that place.

Either way. Its something to think about.

By: CaramelLuv4u

CaramelLuv4u — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 17:02:29 +0000

It’s in our nature to want those things from a man. It speaks about it bodly in the bible, although I don’t know what these men today are thinking about. Some men say we ask for too much, but yet they want to call themselves men. When a man approaches me with those kinds of lines I tell him straight from the heart what’s on my mind. They can’t seem to handle what’s real about a relationship. Really ladies we need to stop faking it like we don’t know what’s going on from the first conversation with that new guy. Stop playing with these chumps and let them know what’s really going on.

By: LiL Trey

LiL Trey — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 16:31:16 +0000

hummm…….. Is this true ladies??? cause i have came across so ladies that have been telling me some things now.

By: 100K

100K — Thu, 21 May 2009 21:46:51 +0000

I wholly cosign Yung and Viral.

Females have to learn that sometimes us men dont want a woman to act like our mom. Nagging a man will only turn him off. Too often i see women get with a dude and then when things dont run on their timetable they get upset. AS IF THE SIGNS ARENT THERE WHEN YOU FIRST GET WITH HIM. then when he replaces you, they’re hate on the next girl because she’s doing something they’re not.

So this is why my ex told me she saw me in her life longterm…..hmph

My thing is….if you cant ride with me now, what makes you think you’ll be here for the future?

By: Charlie Barley

Charlie Barley — Thu, 07 May 2009 17:20:05 +0000

…..well finally this is something the sexes can agree on! 95% of my focus is on potential. I analyze your past decisions to forecast (yes i do work with budgets and numbers) if you’ll have the POTENTIAL to make the same good or bad decisions. etc.

So while you over there looking into my eyes to see what you see…I’ve already done the math on you sweetie!!

By: yung&viral

yung&viral — Thu, 07 May 2009 16:40:49 +0000

Make some solid points sg, but the line of nag and “life coach” is a thin one that is often crossed. That’s why we moved out of moms, if we want to play games or do whatever, that’s his choice, men move at our own speed, but it will get done, don’t project your time table onto the man, we will replace you, good men don’t want their moms, a woman who can nurture with a smile on her face will get what she wants.

By: Dom

Dom — Mon, 04 May 2009 18:04:55 +0000

Shhhhhhhh! Giving away all our secrets and ish! Whats wrong with you! LOL!

By: @DynamicDiva42

@DynamicDiva42 — Mon, 04 May 2009 16:51:04 +0000

Great post! So true. When I meet a man from the very first encounter to the first conversation I’m analyzing what he’s saying about his life, career, family, as well as his likes and dislikes. As long as there are no immediate deal breakers, I put him into the potential category. I think it’s also important to know what you’re working with before you waste time and energy on someone you know will never be right for you despite what potential they may have.