When he broke up with me, of course using the line, “It’s not you, it’s me” (I was thinking, “Are you serious? That is soooo cliche! At least be more creative in your breaking-up), I just acted like I didn’t care. I said, “Ok. I guess some people can handle long distance, and some people can’t. Obviously, you can’t.” He kept trying to explain himself, but I didn’t really care. I wasn’t sad…I really wasn’t that into him.

About a year later, he calls me randomly to talk and he brings up the night he broke up with me saying that I “hurt his feelings.” I was like, WHAT??? You broke up with ME!!!

He claimed that I hurt his feelings because I DIDN’T CRY!!!!! Seriously??? You wanted me to cry over you, to make you feel better? What the hell is that?!

I definitely feel your post!

I do think it is disrespectful for him to blatantly do that though.

Unless it’s mutual and/or peaceful, i’d rather not have anything to do with an ex. period. I used to chill @ school with the new girl and my ex would see it and get with her friends and act sideways. it is what it is

This is why I’ll prolly always keep it in the back of my head that anything can/will go down. When you break up, its sometimes the feeling that you KNOW its gonna go downhill but the ego in you wants the first move.

its worse for guys because we have bigger egos. But it’s like at what point do you balance out being a realist and just being a pessimistic person?

That “I’m not ready to be with you” is 100% on point. Watch shorty pick up her backup dude in a week or less of ya’ll breaking up lmao