Comments on: Should You Check Your Boo’s E-mail or Cell?

By: therealgrimes

therealgrimes — Sun, 12 Feb 2012 17:34:07 +0000

i do it…and i have nothing to hide…she can look at my texts…i even tell her who i talk to…she should be able to do the same…what do i have to hide…i keep my sh*t one hunnit

By: sylkiifeather

sylkiifeather — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 09:45:31 +0000

i agree that if you are in a committed relationship or marriage that if you have to opportunity to snoop, then snoop. its better to find out if something is going on sooner rather than later after more time and emotions have been put in. there are people who are so good at lying and cheating that you would never even suspect anything. so why not look just to see what they are about when they dont think you are around. and i say this because of personal experiences of snooping through phones and emails and finding things that i was grateful to find. yea i was hurt, but i woulda been hurt even more down the line. so i was glad i found out sooner than later. now, if you decide to cheat, then be smart about it so that i cant snoop lol. yea yea yea, there should be trust. but lets keep it real now. i always say…just because i trust you, doesnt mean you are trustworthy. just because you are doing all the right things and treating me right doesnt mean you are not out there doing those same things for some other woman. and to be real, its hard to find trustworthy people in this world, so i trust no one but myself. its not about being insecure…its about wanting to know if that person can be trusted or not.

By: Kinyetta

Kinyetta — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 20:07:51 +0000

Correction..*BE a man/woman*

By: Kinyetta

Kinyetta — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 20:06:59 +0000

NO! NO! NO!! You always find exactly what you are looking for!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Can’t get mad. If you don’t trust him/her and have the need to look through his/her phone then obviously you have a gut feeling that something is up!! Me a man/woman and ask your partner!! If he/she says nothing is gong on..then drop it. If they are lying, you know what they say.. “what goes on in the dark comes out in the light”!! THIS IS TRUE!!! Leave that cellie alone!!!!

By: Ntsoinnocent

Ntsoinnocent — Wed, 29 Jul 2009 19:22:46 +0000

C’mon people… In this day and age we have to be aware of who and what we are dealing with. It’s noble to try to trust someone, but if you have questions and doubts I’d say check it and check out of that relationship. You’ll LIVE to laugh about it later.