P*ssy Control

There is so much women can do to make sex more enjoyable for all involved. We’re not talking different positions. Think smaller. Yes. Your vagina, itself.

When used correctly, the love canal can squeeze, expand and moisturize itself with some direction from yourself. It’s not easy and takes some practice.

To keep it tight…

Do kegels and wall sits.

The pressure and release of you core and buttock contracting extends to your va-jay-jay muscles. Which means, if you were blown out the night prior you can go back to your old self in a day or two.

The wall sits are also great for building leg strength, which is a must of you plan on riding your man for long periods of time.

For squeezing…

Beads or weighted balls do the trick. Place them inside of you and walk around the house for a couple hours. I won’t recommend you rock them outside because with your every step the weights clang or worse they slip out cause you muscles aren’t keeping them in place.

For natural moisture…

No one wants dry sex. Sexual excitement has almost everything to do with your state of mind. Whenever you are relaxed and sexually aroused your brain naturally triggers the release of these fluids. So if you are feeling guilty, uneasy, nervous or tired chances are you are too distracted to let go and let god.

If you are into giving oral start your session with that. Try gagging on him. Yes, on purpose. That will cause your body to jerk and all of your juices will come out. Yes, the juices down there.

What’s the purpose for all this?

You should be able to control the depth of his stroke by expanding and contracting yourself. The more variation the better the feeling. Most importantly, you will be able to control things instead of being at the mercy of him. As he’s going back and forth you should be loosing and tightening at the same time and on beat.

Another great tip is clenching with your vagina as he comes. If you’ve ever had an orgasm you’d know this happens naturally. But you can also do this involuntarily.

The best way to test these tactics out is to practice…by yourself. Use either your fingers or a dildo and work those muscles out.

Ladies, hopefully you realize there is more to the game than laying on your back.

- SG