Comments on: “I Know Why Northern Women are Single”

By: NY's Finest

NY's Finest — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 19:23:26 +0000

Mr. SC, it’d make more sense if you’d comment on things that you actually do KNOW about. There are a lot of single women in NY because of the MEN in NY. Here’s a thought, Demographics. Men in the south are more inclined to be family oriented. If they don’t go off to college or the military after HS they get a job, get married and start a family. Not so for the men up North. Single men that have a legit job, know how to treat a woman and aren’t self-proclaimed pimps are a hot commodity in NY (and everywhere else for that matter). They love the night life, the women and the non-committence of bachelorhood. Once they’ve indulged in this life, it’s hard for them to settle down because they think they may miss the “ho-train” for one last ride. Hence, the brick wall. (Thanks, Ms Yellow GRITS. You were right on point with that statement). For us educated women that work hard, play hard and make our own dough; I say why settle?
We know what we bring to the table and we know we can cook slammin greens and make sweet tea as good as any Southern Belle (ok, at least I can) so reserve the right to be selective. Mr. Right is out there…just don’t count on him being a NYer, though.

By: Blaqryne

Blaqryne — Sun, 31 May 2009 12:45:28 +0000

I read about the NYC Norhtern Women and its not that they want ballers i am from the bronx there’s alot of women in the city that search for good brothers and some find them, there not so independent that they don’t reconize a true man. Now on the other had i wrote a book The Humpty Dumpty Theory AND IT HAS ALOT OF WOMEN FROM THE A SOUUTH who try to fix some of the sorriest men i ever seen?? And then wounder why they cheat or Disrespect them but like i see it , it is what it is NOw i am onley speaking about hte women i have seen in San Antonio,Tx Sad state of mind here. Blaqryne

By: Livin in tha South & Married

Livin in tha South & Married — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 14:21:50 +0000

I have not ever lived in the North…but I think the problem here is, no matter what region you live in why is it expected that a woman cant wait to find the man that she truly deserves. So many woman i really believe just “settle”. Why is it a man who works a 40 week and a woman who also works that 40 week is then expected to come home and cook, clean, and tend to the children. I think men need to start steppin up to the plate and realizing that the plate is 50/50. Help me to help you out!

By: MS Yellow G.R.I.T.S (girls raised in the south)

MS Yellow G.R.I.T.S (girls raised in the south) — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 22:39:56 +0000

hmmmm manipulated into submission or just enjoying the feeling of being treated good all the way around??????

By: Charlie Barley

Charlie Barley — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 14:57:31 +0000

Ok here is my 2 cents…

I grew up and lived in NY and for the past 10yrs in “da Saaouth”. It’s a catch 22 at the end of the day. The difference between The North and South in general is approach. North is more direct – South slips you a sugar pill before the bottomline. Northern women are direct and it’s cute until the line is cross – “oh you aint give me nuthing this month”. Same with the south all that sweet shit is great until you realize she got you hooked on the food and sex and has manipulated you into submission.