Anyway, I didn’t watch the show because like you said, Steve has been saying these things on his show for years and you’re right, he only went on Oprah to get $$ from the other races – we’ve been getting this information for free.

Josekroon – Steve didn’t say ask these questions on the 1st date one after another. He said to ask some of these questions “after some time.” And you’re right, most men won’t pass the test. That’s the whole point.

One thing Steve said about 2 years ago I use all the the time when I first meet a guy. Steve said women have very good investigative skills but we usually use them after we’ve given up ‘the cookie.” Steve says to use your investigative skills at the first meeting and put in into your conversation. Guys are so gullible they don’t even know they’ve given up their work history, birthdate, first and last names, family location because it’s shrouded in a great conversation.

For example, I ALWAYS ask how old a guy is. I follow that with a big smile because usually they throw it right back at me. I do a stupid girly giggle, evade the question and ask again with boo-boo eyes. 10 minutes later, I ask when their birthday is – and volunteer my own. Now you have their birthdate. Go home and check the criminal records, etc.

By using this technique, I confirmed what I already thought about one dude. His past 3 years in Tennessee were actually spent locked up – ha! Needless to say I never spoke to him again.

Bottom line, ask as many questions as you can in the beginning. If they get mad, then all they wanted to do was get some “cookie” anyway.

Now, if that’s your goal also, then neva mind!