Comments on: Married People Shouldn’t Give Dating Advice

By: aly

aly — Fri, 07 Jan 2011 23:17:00 +0000

If anyone ask me, the best dating advice, i would just advice a couple things:

1) try to find someone, like yourself ( unless you are really attracted to different things, cultures, languages, ways of thinking…and you are NOT secretly trying to change the other person, because…chances are the other person could also be hoping to change you…and both of u will end up miserable)

2) someone you feel comfortable being yourself (don’t covert to any religion, change your appearance, force yourself to lose/gain weight, etc, etc)

3) allow this person, to feel comfortable being himself as well (don’t try to change anyone!.)

4) be realistic, whatever you see on TV, books, or happening to your friends, will not necessarily happen to you (that goes for all the good and all the bad things)

By: munther

munther — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 15:18:33 +0000

hi for every budy

By: yolaa

yolaa — Sat, 07 Aug 2010 00:10:52 +0000

I agree with you single girl. like the gentleman said earlier, I’ll take advice from a married couple that’s been together for 25+ years. 90% of my friends who are in relationships or married are miserable, fight all the time (including right in front of me) or putting up with a lot of BS in order to have that ring on the finger. I could have been married twice, but decided to say no thanks because of numerous red flags–others are so enthralled with the idea of having a wedding day that they ignore those flags. then they’re divorced 5 years later. no thanks, I do not need any advice from you on how to get into that situation.

By: Viky

Viky — Mon, 19 Jul 2010 04:36:37 +0000

My problem is the exact opposite; I never know what to say when my single friends ask me to analyze their last date or their current prospects. So I say, single people shouldn’t ask married people for dating advice!

By: munther

munther — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 12:39:31 +0000

birds of feather flock together