If You’re a Big Girl, Chances are You’re a Slut
“All fat girls are sluts.”
I couldn’t believe what I was hearing, then again since it was coming from Dallas I could believe it. Dallas is a dear friend, of the gay persuasion and is living with a girl roommate who is obese, damn near 40 and the mother of all whores. She has a boyfriend who has a girlfriend and doesn’t care. She sleeps with a rotation of at least seven men with a couple of new one offs each week. Since Dallas never lived with a woman before, he is convinced that the way Ms. Fat Booty gets down is the way all women get down.
“If you lived with me and saw me bring home a different boy every night you’ll think that all gay men are nasty. Well, she is the only woman I’ve lived with and because of her, I think all women are nasty. Especially fat ones. They are all sluts.”
Dallas explain this theory with some convincing points.
“When I’m in the barbershop all men talk about how they would never fuck a fat bitch but someone is getting them pregnant. Why do you think you see all these fat single mothers pushing strollers with their fat back exposed in their two sizes too small Dereon jeans? After dark, when no one is looking dudes creep on over to their fat girl’s house. He dare not be seen with her in public and he knows that sexually he can do whatever he wants to do. Fat girls’ self-esteem is so low that 99% of them will let a dude go raw, take it in every hole and not complain too much cause they don’t want to lose who they think is their man.”
I raised these points to several of my man friends and surprisingly, LADIES, all of them agreed.
“Fat girls have nothing to loose. They want the attention of a man bad enough that they will sell themselves short.” – Manny, a man friend
How is attributed to fat girls and not all girls with low self-esteem?
Slutting yourself out, in my opinion, has more to do with wanting to feel valued and appreciated than it does with your waistline. But the two may be connected:
You are fat…
…therefore…
You have low self-esteem…
…which means…
You are super open when a man shows interest…
…subsequently…
You fall for him and whatever he tells you…
…thereby…
Allowing him to get the draws…
…resulting in…
You brokenhearted and burying your sorrow in a 10-piece box of Popeye’s
The cycle continues.
If there is any truth to Dallas’ theory, I’m worried about young girls who are falling victim to fat induced low self-esteem. They are the ones who are truly screwed. They are the ones who are popping out babies like a PEZ dispenser.
“If fat girls are sluts, what are the men who take advantage of them?” I asked Dallas.
“Child, a man will fuck anything. They are just men.”
Bee
Friday, 20th March 2009 at 10:40 AM
This is a terrible post! How in the world can you group a women demographic of people into SLUTS. I will never come to your site again. This is trash!
Dom
Friday, 20th March 2009 at 11:33 AM
I was waiting for a point. I never found one. Perhaps I missed something?
In any event, you might want to reconsider this post. Its offensive. And Im a size 2!
About to tell the Truth
Friday, 20th March 2009 at 11:55 AM
As a man, I can tell you that this isn’t too far from the truth.
Men will say they don’t care what you look like but no man wants a fat woman, especially one like the ones in this picture.
it’s not all all fat girls are sluts, some fat girls are willing to go above and beyond in the bedroom to keep a dude.
I can see how this offends but sorry ladies it’s realer than you think.
Are You Serious???
Friday, 20th March 2009 at 11:58 AM
This is funny.
@ Bee not every post on the internet has a POINT.
I took for what it is:
Dallas’ pov on fat girls.
he is entitled to his opinion. and if i have a roommate like his i prob would feel the same way too.
Charlie Barley
Friday, 20th March 2009 at 11:59 AM
Actually this exposes a dark secret that men and women both dont want to say. All women have that overweight friend that they hear tell these stories and to be NICE dont bring up the weight/self esteem issue. Most men are wolves although most are tamed/frontin like they not – you can’t delete the natural instinct to pick low fruit. Grow up this is life people! Live it and LOVE IT!
Miss Sensible
Friday, 20th March 2009 at 12:01 PM
Single Girl –
I can see how this post is offense and while I don’t agree with the points your friend made it is interesting to see the view point of the opposite sex (straight or gay).
I’m sure not all men feel this way, but i could be wrong.
I am a thick woman and I remember my college days when this one dude would creep to my room but never wanted to be seen with me in public.
This happens even now.
People are so caught up with the physical that forget about the mind.
If a man would only take me serious if i’m a size 6 then I don’t want to be with that man.
love me for me
- miss sensible
You Tell Them Charlie
Friday, 20th March 2009 at 12:03 PM
@Charlie
Brother you ain’t never lied.
Ladies this is the TRUTH.
Some of the best sex I’ve ever had was with a fat girl. She would go all out.
The sex was great but i would never wife her.
beautybellNYC
Friday, 20th March 2009 at 1:50 PM
this isnt the first time i heard about fat girls being loose…i do think it is a self esteem issue..but i also feel that its a self esteem issue wit ALL women….women who have low self esteem and self worth are targets to be taken advantage of…there are a lot skinny chicks who slut it out….but out of the masses, fat chicks are the ones that have the lowest self esteem so i believe that is why they are victim to this stereotyoe
RtG
Friday, 20th March 2009 at 2:14 PM
I don’t find this post offensive at all. It’s just one man’s opinion. That doesn’t mean he’s right.
ellee
Saturday, 21st March 2009 at 11:53 PM
Disagree, mainly because I have fat friends with high self-esteem and higher morals. But I understand how he could think that. If that’s all he sees then there’s nothing to show him different.
Cereza
Monday, 23rd March 2009 at 3:35 PM
I`m not offended, but honestly, I don`t get offended very often.. size 6 or not.
First of all, fat does not equal ugly OR sloppy. Your gay friend must be used to some lower – end big boned women, because I`ve seen some ridiculously confident, type – A personality, aggressive, healthy, beautiful big boned women, my mother included.
Second, your friend is ignorant (if not mildly retarded) to lump together one large demographic of women because of one woman he has close experiences with.
Third, 85% of adults in the United States are overweight, and I`m sure your skinny gay friend has had close encounters with another; and being African American, I`m damn sure he`s met some anomolies within his own community or upbringing.
Fourth, under what ROCK do you people live? Seriously, this sounds like the “all Black people are oversexed” argument that took roots during slavery.
Your friend is ignorant.
I believe he could have made a more valid and intelligible point.
He didn`t. You didn`t.
Therefore, both of your opinions and thoughts should be disregarded. I`m not going to even bother to try and understand what you might have been saying.
dani
Monday, 23rd March 2009 at 5:06 PM
imma have to say this is relatively true.
Miss April Joy
Sunday, 29th March 2009 at 5:03 PM
This screams ignorance. Being a whore has nothing to do with size or anything else but how you value yourself and whether you know and appreciate your self worth. Many overweight girls have low self esteem issues but the same goes for women who are skinny or average size and they are still self concious. Does that make them whores as well? There are some women who give bad reputations for all. Look at Monique and her character portrayed on the Parkers and in her various movies of always running after the man and making herself look desperate.
Always Hoping
Thursday, 2nd April 2009 at 5:03 AM
@Charlie Barley
I LOVE your spirit! You are truly correct! This IS life, live it and LOVE it.
I find your reference to “low hanging fruit” quite offensive though I must say. Have you never met a quality larger woman? One who as you might say, be on a higher branch?While we can all pretty much admit Dallas’ theory has no valid foundation and is extremely flawed because 1) in no fashion, shape or form does his sleezy roommate represent ALL women let alone all fat women, 2) the biggest flaw is the illusion that women of the thicker persuasion all suffer from low self-esteem. I (of course) am an exception, overweight, gorgeous and highly intelligent. I am sooo thankful for this article because I have not always been overweight but since ‘crossing the line’ I have found it very interesting the kind of attention I receive now from men. It’s enlightening to know that large women are put in the ‘secret’ category! I am disheartened by the fact that so many men are missing out on awesome ‘people’ because they are not genuinely interested in getting to know them based on a characteristic that can be changed. The ignorance and shallowness of these men needs as much exercise as the women. I am also ashamed that women are compromising themselves in such a way. Thank you all for making me aware. It will NEVER be me (again).
sexxxyred
Tuesday, 7th April 2009 at 8:29 PM
Well sometimes with size comes a self-esteem issue. Fat or skinny, if a woman feels uncertain about herself she will sleep with a lot of men because it makes her feel beautiful and wanted.
Nicole
Monday, 13th April 2009 at 10:57 PM
@sexxxyred. YOU ARE SO RIGHT! Wow. I don’t even know where to being with what I think about the post. But I actually lived with a friend who had pretty low self-esteem because she was so skinny and wanted to gain more weight. She would sleep aroound to find self-worht. It can go either way.
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Sunday, 17th May 2009 at 2:53 PM
I find it interesting that while most men (not all) will agree with this statement, most women are offended. Nothing is ever 100% but I too agree that a good number of overweight women do tend to put themselves out there more. I do agree that it is a self-esteem issue, and most overweight women have that issue (not all), if a fine, in shape, great career sista has trouble finding a good man, imagine the trouble a overweight women has. Not the jill scott type overweight (which isn’t my taste but not terrible), I mean the damn near snoring while awake overweight. There plenty of thick women that carry it well, to those who say “love me for me” that’s great and if we got ten years and 3 kids in I will, but if your just overweight buacause your lazy and you’d rather eat the low calorie (entire box) of oreos then your on your on, not attracted to that and I don’t care how incredible your mind is, we will forever be platonic friends.
Beautifulone
Monday, 1st June 2009 at 3:33 PM
I am a big girl, and I will have to say that this is true for most of us. Men don’t take us out in public, they don’t bring us home to their families and they damn sure don’t bring around their homies…IF they take us somewhere it’s out of the way and Lord help him if he sees someone he knows. I can talk freely about this because I have been with men that thought that I was that way..of course I am not, but Dallas is pretty much on point…It’s all about the man you deal with…you have to wait for the man that will treat like the beautiful woman you are…they’re out there…but you just have to be yourself, put your best foot forward and ignore the urge to eat a pint of ice cream because you’re home on yet another saturday night!
AMAZED
Tuesday, 9th June 2009 at 10:06 PM
I think this post is horrible in the sense that it generalizes Big/plus sized/fat women. I will admit that I am a big woman and that I have had my shared of partners but the majority counting on one hand and a couple fingers that I made the choices to have sex with these men because I wanted to and not because my self-esteem is low. Not that it was not always up there, but I still have values and morals. I my have wanted to change my weight because I thought skinny was the way to be what what woman/man has not wanted to change something about themselves. There is a woman out there that is a size 0 and sleeping with 10 men. There is a woman out there that is a sized 26 and has had only two partners. Not because no one wanted her but because she met someone that she loved and only wanted to be with them. I find it amazing that you can sit and judge every big/fat woman based on your nasty roomate. And NO if i had a roomate who was homosexual and had a diiferent sexual partner every night that is her/his business. I can only tell him/her that they should protect themselves and think about the consequences.
LIVE, LAUGH, LOVE!
demeanor89
Saturday, 10th October 2009 at 9:30 PM
this is a very ignorant post n its racism 2 bigger woman…..first not all big girls have low self esteem… my sis who is a big girl has high self esteem she dresses to kill n guys are always tryna get with her… she had one boyfriend n that didnt last b/c he tried 2 take advantage but she wasnt havin it…. its funny b/c most girls who re whores n sluts are the little petitie ones or the ones with the banging body but i didnt see that posted in ur post….
sylkiifeather
Sunday, 11th October 2009 at 3:04 PM
not all sluts have low self esteem. some women just love to fuck and love having different options…and i see NOTHING wrong with that. as long as you are safe about it…do whateva makes you happy…
dede
Wednesday, 21st October 2009 at 9:09 PM
Big gurlz rock!!!!!! and he need to mind his buisness and let her do her. So what how he feel about big gurls, he gay anyway. So why does it matter, he just tryna put us big gurls on blast grow up !!
Squid
Friday, 13th November 2009 at 4:07 PM
ok i think this is a lie, maybe not in all cases but this couldnt be true for everyone, im fat and im sexy, i have the the highest self esteem, im confident and carry myself well, and men love it, and they are not just trying to get in my pants, i love sex and im good at what i do but hguys like me for me not becase im a fat slut or anything, there are guys out there that actaully love and want to be with a fat girl and a re proud of it, because they are not shallow and because they see beyond the outside, not all me and certainly not all fat chicks fall under you friends catagories, sorry!
Mamasan
Wednesday, 9th December 2009 at 7:40 AM
The “rock” these people live under is called “middle class urbanite”. Where there aren’t an overabundance of life and pleasure hating people striving to be the media’s flavor of the month or look like them, people are much more relaxed about appearance. So fat women in these situations understand that their conduct is under as much or more scrutiny than their appearance. Their counterparts are also not feminized enough to be worried about the appearance based social status of women they want to *marry*.
A guy who wouldn’t be satisfied with rice cakes and soy pellets for dinner probably doesn’t want a wife has has to shag like an origami project. So fat women who are down on themselves should get real. It’s a big world with room for all kinds, and if a guy doesn’t respect you enough to be seen with you, he’s a pussy who should be rejected outright.
I met a lot of men when I was skinny. I met the love of my life when I was fat. Now that I’m less fat (the past fat was caused by health problems and ignorance about how to solve them) and older, it’s easier for me to see the difference in how people perceived me. You meet real men when you’re acting like a real woman. There are always going to be throngs of wusses out there, but your chances of meeting one decent man are seriously better when you behave like a decent woman. That’s someone with honor and ethics no matter what your fetishes are.
So don’t use fat as an excuse not to have a life or to let people treat you like dirt.
Lotus
Thursday, 14th January 2010 at 3:17 PM
This is true to an extent. I used to be slutty..Yes I said it, I was large and still amand yes I needed validation from men. It really was the lowest time of my life. I did however meet my now husband that way lol. we’ve been together ten years now and I even gained 80lbs yikes I know…BUT we’ve been having the best sex ever. Weight has nothing to do with it it’s all about CONFIDENCE. If your lacking it it will show no matter the size. Also I’d like to say Big girls kinda have to be great in bed because a “perfect 10″ doesn’t have to do anything to get guys just sit there realy, so yeah we gotta work harder to keep our men…is that so bad though?? I think most are just Jealous LOL
RJHodge
Tuesday, 26th January 2010 at 11:21 AM
This is offensive and ignorant. I am a white male, 6’6″ 275 lbs, with 6% body fat, ex college football player, and run marathons. I’m told all the time that i look like Bill Goldberg (the wrestler) I’m not being conceited, just giving you the 411. My fiance is a white female, 5’7″ 330 lbs, beautiful, 44 K bust, and a ghetto booty that makes black girls say “damm, she has a big butt!” I was married before to a marathon runner. I have grown to realize that I love big women. I married the skinny girl because I thought that is what others would expect of me. My fiance is type “A” personality, VP of a national corporation, extremely self confident, smarter than me (and I’m not ashamed to admit it). I’m offended that someone would say that she is a slut because she is big. I had to work very hard to win her over. I am so very proud to have her. Some men are mature enough to know what they like and are not ashamed to show it.
can't believe someone actually saiid thiis nonsense
Wednesday, 27th January 2010 at 7:46 PM
wth?????!!!ok first of all i am a biiq qirll and a teen at tht.i fiind thiis greatly offensiive!i for one have had many guys try 2 take my inoccence and i have not giiven iin to any of them.i am not,do not and will not ever portray myself as a ‘slut”as your friiend stated.in my opinion ur friiend is blissfully ignorant and sayiinq comments liike tht (no offense to any homosexuals)but sayiinq thiinqs such as that are prob why he is qay iin the fiirst place because no female i knoe would date hym wiith that poiint of view.
BIG BEAUTIFUL GIRL, WHO MEN TAKE OUT, DONT HIDE AND WIFE :) and is NOT a Tramp:)
Thursday, 11th February 2010 at 6:53 PM
WOW I loved this blog, and it is sooooooo TRUE all you people taking offense to it, GET OVER IT. its real and I love it.
I am a Fat chick, and have many male friends, a brother, male cousins etc. Who all say they would never fuck a fat chick, EVER. But some dudes saying that they would do it , if nobody ever knew lol
Im also a fat chick, who is confident, gorgeous, and cant keep a guy from wanting to wife me, or be in a “serious relationship” its been like that my whole damn life.
I understand the stereotype of fat chicks being sluts, because LOTS OF THEM ARE!!! because they are insecure as hell, and lonely, they think if a man fucks with them and visits them @ 3am and cuddles with them after anal sex and a BJ , that they love them, and imagine that these men really care for them. But they really really dont. Most of them, even if they DID care wouldnt let themselves think that far, cause shes a FAT CHICK!!
Well I just wanted to make it clear that no all fat girls are hopeless, lonely sloppy sluts, well not this one. You might think that you wouldnt wife a fatgirl.. you could be wrong
MICHELLE
Friday, 19th February 2010 at 3:49 AM
YOUR ALL A BUNCH OF CUNTS
MICHELLE
Friday, 19th February 2010 at 3:50 AM
AND ON THAT NOTE IM A LESBIAN && LOVE THE FAT BITCHES
jaynti
Friday, 19th February 2010 at 3:51 AM
if anyone is going to catorgorize here, i don’t think a gay boy should. i have gay friends and those boys are the biggests sluts i know. Fat gay boys are the worst.
Age, gender, size, race anyone can be a slut.
TAHLIA CONCA
Friday, 19th February 2010 at 3:59 AM
I LOVE ANY GIRLS ESPECIALLY THE BIG ONES
steph
Tuesday, 21st September 2010 at 1:26 AM
you can’t really paste that theory on every big chick…i’m a bigger girl and even if dudes give me attention i’m way to self conscious to take my clothes off. i’m super sexually frustrated cause i refuse, even though i get guys telling me they’re into bigger chicks…i wont get naked infront of anyone…even my doctors…
Victoria
Friday, 8th October 2010 at 10:47 PM
Wow, can you say ‘go fuck yourself?’. I am a bigger girl, and even with the low self confidence I have, I KNOW I am worth so much more than that. And I can promise you there are more big girls out there who feel the same. Regardless of how much I want to feel ‘wanted’, fucking some asshole who only comes over at night for some ass will never be on my agenda. I don’t care if I’m the last fat, 19 year old virgin alive, I will never settle with ‘whatever I can get’.
You made some interesting points, I’l give you that, but you are so far off from the truth.
If what you are saying is true, I just hope that one day, when you have children, that they don’t become obese and slut them selves out to men just to feel better, then come home with syphilis or chlamydia, pass it on to your grandchilren and then spread the love on to you.
Oh, and by the way, next time you post something like this, maybe you should rethink the amount of ‘FAT WHORES’ who use vibrators to feel good about theselves.
and one more thing, in the last year, the number of obese women in the U.S. were 30 percent less likely to have had sex at all in the past year.
That mean us ‘Fat girls’ who are ‘slutting it up’, are 30 less likely to contract STD’s.
So, enjoy your Genital Herpes.
Upset Curvy Goddess
Saturday, 16th October 2010 at 7:49 PM
This is VERY dumb.Did your friend go to see how all the fat girls in the world act?I don’t think he did.It was only that ONE slut. Not all of us act like that!
I wonder what would you and your idiot friend say to all the plus size teens out there.Your affecting the people of the future too, you idiots.
I hope you get so fat that you can’t even get to pick up your damn fingers to type bullshit like this.I’m 15 and I can tell this is trash!
OldMan
Saturday, 30th October 2010 at 10:06 PM
I’ve had em both ways. My first regular sex partner back in high school was rail thin and a complete slut. Then I dated a girl later on who was a little more plump, and she turned out to be the same. I could do whatever I wanted with either, and afterwards heard stories about the stuff dudes did to them. Both wanted love so badly that they’d let dudes do whatever they want. So while I think big women are probably more apt to be this way, there’s a whole lot of skinny girls that are like that too.
Luscious
Tuesday, 29th March 2011 at 6:59 PM
I would like to say this assumption Fat chicks are sluts is certainly a first for me. Im a sexy curvy girI and must look good as im fortunate to get many compliments;), Im a makeup artist so always look smashing and trendy. and I have never even considered that only fat girls are sluts, I am very sociable and happen to know that sluts are of all shapes and sizes. I am a sexy girl most days but on occassions I may suffer from insecurities (who doesnt), but I can assure you my self esteem never gets in the way of my self worth (dignity, morals and values) I value myself just as much and only considered sleeping with men if they where Gentlemen who had taken the time to get to know me and I have done the same (that usually takes more than 1 drunken night).
Sarah Bright
Tuesday, 5th April 2011 at 10:01 PM
I am a fat woman and not promiscuous. I am married and have no children. My spouse married me when I was 10 pounds heavier. Not everyone on earth is fat-phobic.
By the way, it is okay to have sex with multiple partners. Ladies don’t need to perpetualize the sexuality double standard. It is misogynistic.
Dumb Jerk
Saturday, 16th April 2011 at 7:23 AM
I love sluts they are much more fun than prudes. Fat girls are not really desperate or depressed. They are just fat. I like em all shapes and sizes. The low self esteem girls are no fun either way and are all treated the same by men. We use them but don’t want them around after. Fat or skinny there are just certain things about a woman you want to keep. Obese women are not always the type that make you proud to be a man.
Someone said something about the mind. I have to comment on that. Your minds do not turn us on dear it is our perverted minds that do it for us. A woman can be very intelligent and I can look straight past to the tits. If there is nothing to look at what do I care what this girl has to say about American Idol? I find that I am friends with many women who hold common interest. The ones I end up in bed with are not always the friendliest. A good partner for life strikes a balance between pleasant conversation and proper amount of Affection. Love can make any woman beautiful to some guy.
Obese women for me do not get my motor running. I am repulsed by them with good personal reason. Sexual attraction is based in ones memory. My preference is for someone who does not pee on the toilet seat. Hygiene is a huge issue for me and a deal breaker for you that cannot reach your parts to wash them. To the men who are knocking these girls up shame on you! Don’t spread your DNA with someone you cannot bear to see without free tickets to the Springer show.
For you ladies who are fat and keep saying your tired of being a booty call, un-hook your phone. If you want a meaningful relationship try working on yourself before you decide to pull someone else into that disgusting reality you got going on. Always wanting something but never willing to take the steps necessary to get it. You don’t find love in a one night stand. It is often that one who you talk to every day and have no interest in that blind sides you one day and BAM! Your in love! Not looking for it and just working on you love tends to take notice. Less cake bitches and more walks around the lake. That is where you gonna find him, because you should all know good men love to fish.
bloke0009
Tuesday, 4th October 2011 at 11:12 AM
People, relax! He’s got a point! How often do you see a good looking guy with a fattie in public? I’m a fairly athletic and not so bad looking bloke and get rejected by the hot ones more than I like to be. But was never eliminated/rejected by a fattie. I’ve tried this experiment myself — there seems to be a connection between being fat and having low self esteem. In fact, just last week, I was invited over to a girl’s place for a first date! Never happened to me before (by a hot one that is)! And yes, she was all liquored up even before I got there! I bailed off of course as that was just an experiment. Call me a git but it only goes to show this sort of shit does happen.
No need to be offended. Deep down all the fatties know they want to slim down. Now put down that donut. Your fat’s offending my eyes!
Nicole
Wednesday, 5th October 2011 at 12:25 AM
Bloke, maybe it’s not about self esteem. Self esteem could be an excuse before there was Concerta and gastric bypass surgery. The “magic pill” is already cheap enough or most people with jobs’ health insurance and in some places, national insurance will cover the $olutions.
In my observation, being fat is either about not being rich or not being full of **it. Someone who isn’t willing to get cut up or take heart killing stimulants just to be thin is probably also not going to be willing to pretend to be an angel just to get into a guy’s pocket.
…although I won’t lie, I have played the pathetic fatty game on a few guys for the attention. They all think they invented liking a woman despite her weight, and I let them think that. It’s like doing a good deed and boosting their confidence.
I’m not saying it’s a good thing to be a slut, or reclaim the word or something. I’m just saying that if it weren’t for sluts, you’d all have to wait until you could afford to pay some woman’s family to marry her, or resort to prostitutes.
So don’t complain that the ones who will do it for free don’t look as good as the ones who make you pay. If you want the hotties, work on your dominance and make some money. If you want to stay gentle and broke, then you have to face facts that the amateurs are going to be fatter than the professionals.
bloke0009
Wednesday, 5th October 2011 at 11:19 AM
@@Nicole, you make good points but bring up this topic of weight with any overweight girl and she will cry! And why is that? Because the magic pill’s not working quick enough? Nope!
I agree that being poor and fat seems to go hand in hand. Poor people can only mostly afford highly processed foods (at least in the US) and thus the link is readily apparent. But that doesn’t mean they’re not full of shit. Instead, turning a blind eye to one’s own health and weight and potentially to a partners sexual needs is. Just search for “my girlfriend’s fat” on Google and you’ll see what I mean. Overeating/eating unhealthy is a disease. Lack of attention to one’s own health is a pathetic. Opting for a quick way out by using a magic pill or surgery is only a temporary fix. It’s like treating the symptoms but not the actual problem!
And sadly, those doing it for free and not doing so to help mankind! Not for charity! They’re doing it out of desperation. For companionship. Potentially for love. The goods that people don’t want will eventually be sold for a discount or in the end, given away for free! And sadly again, there will be takers — doesn’t mean they love it and yes they will complain about it!
Good Times
Wednesday, 12th October 2011 at 10:24 AM
All this talk about big girls and sex…I think I’m gonna go find my thick goddess and have some fun.
C-ya suckers!
Mandi
Sunday, 6th November 2011 at 11:54 AM
I am fat girl and I was also a skinny girl too. I do have self-esteem. I have always enjoyed sex either thin or fat. My stance on what I will do or not do hasnt changed at all. Granted, I do like to mix it up once in while but why does that make a girl slut. If she is single and wants to have more than one partner, let her be its her choice.