Comments on: I Don’t Love You Just the Way You Are

By: Angelika

Angelika — Mon, 21 Dec 2009 05:14:50 +0000

I never understood why people try to change the one they’re with. Why not just find what you’re looking for?

And forget 80/20. That’s not good enough. I prefer 99.9/0.01 theory where 0.01 is so minor and unimportant that I can’t even remember what it is that bugged me. Now, that’s something to sing about.

By: Complex Gentleman

Complex Gentleman — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 21:33:34 +0000

I agree with @ DC Man with a Plan

All those tricks you tried will not work. Men aren’t dumb. They can tell when you are passively nagging them about their shortcomings.

You can’t make someone “change” and you can’t and you can’t trick them into changing. It really is the 80/20 rule. Accept your 80 or keep it moving. The reason why men don’t try and change women is because we don’t get with women we don’t want to be with. If we don’t want to be with you we end it.

By: DC Man with a Plan

DC Man with a Plan — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 23:52:53 +0000

lmao…..So you were off the net for a minute to perfect your range of humorous commentary? Y’all trippin. And the only negro who will go for any of those half-wit, blantantly obvious attempts at reverse-psychology…Is someone you’re carrying on the love scale as a 1. I did get a chuckle outta the inches to belly joke. So, I hate it when she makes plans that are expected to include me–but she failed to elicit my input or cooperation until I’m put on the spot in front of mutual friends..But I love that she knows to STF – up during the game!

By: sylkiifeather

sylkiifeather — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 23:23:58 +0000

most people these days are extremely picky and selfish.. they focus so much on their wants and not their needs. so they will always want something better, no matter how good they got it at home. and then when they find out this grass isnt greener on the other side, they want to come back home.

mines is: i hate it when he informs me about changes in plans at the last minute after ive gotten my hopes up or have gotten ready…but i love that he makes me feel like im the only woman in his eyes when i am around him and he accepts me for who i am…

By: The Inquirer

The Inquirer — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 18:48:12 +0000

So true, SG. No one is ever going to be 100% satisfied all the time, and if they tell you they are, they’re lying. There’s always going to be that one thing that you really wish they’d fix/change/rethink. And like you said, it’s a matter of finding out if that thing is the dealbreaker, or if it’s something you could live with because the good things are so much greater.
So here’s mine:

I hate it when he always has people over the house. But I love that he loves me so much.