Comments on: 3 Ways to Win/Keep a Man

By: Alex

Alex — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 09:20:16 +0000

Duvlek..don’t let the feminist movement brainwash you.Marriage dates back thousands of years and it’s an old institution with old basic principles(listed in the above article) that if applied,will result in a long and lasting marriage even in the mordern times we live in. For all you female posters who see this as “Unfair”, Hellooo..”Life is many times Unfair”. James Brown was right by saying “This is a mans world”. And until we can maybe re-create old ancient African cultures where women were in charge and ran villages(they even had women s armies) and men were considered subordinate and preyed on by women for sex (I would love that..I get tired of alway’s being the initiator..lol), men will alway’s have the advantage..even no good men with no JOB can still get some..even if they have to go to Keisha to get some love cause their boo have kicked them out the house.lol
I do agree that if you are a woman, make sure the guy is deserving before you do all these things for him or you will be the fool and if he is not reciprocating your love and kindness, kick him to the curve quick.

By: BEAUTIFULQUEEN

BEAUTIFULQUEEN — Fri, 29 May 2009 08:30:24 +0000

I LOVE IT GO SINGLE GIRL!

By: Duvlek

Duvlek — Tue, 26 May 2009 07:48:25 +0000

itz funny that sex is listed first. .when personally, intelligence and conversing should be da firth thing listed. if two people cant communicated itz doomed from failure anyway. ..as far as home cookin dats good but i think both should be able to, this not the old dayz and things hav changed so i feel if both are helpin cook the meal when possible can add more spice to the relationship. .sex well dat obvious as well as taking care of home. .who wants to be wit sum1 dat cant take care of home. ..home is where it starts anyway when its a family, if more ppl worried bout takin care of their home first instead of worrying about wut others are doing and tryna criticize yanno. ..

By: keishabusby

keishabusby — Tue, 26 May 2009 02:45:12 +0000

i would have to agree. the same way you got him is the same way you must keep him.ladies the ones that say what they wont do. remember theres a woman out there willing to do what you want do.remember that . dont say i didnt warn you . because am that one. am the clean up lady. am the one he cums to when he needs a fix up or when you make him madd. call it what you want . dont hate the game hate the haters.thats why guy loves hoodrats, tramps, hookers ect…. because they do what the woman want do . and nine out of ten thats who he will leave you for. think am lying ask superhead…..

By: Lee-Lee

Lee-Lee — Tue, 26 May 2009 02:11:45 +0000

Yes, i am single and I’d rather be single and happy then with a ninja who ain’t shiit and settling. I’m a good woman who deserves a good man and I will not waiver in my morals or beliefs.

By: Lee-Lee

Lee-Lee — Tue, 26 May 2009 02:10:23 +0000

I also refuse to be cooking, cleaning, doing laundry, or giving up sex on a regular basis to any man who hasn’t put a ring on my finger. Call me old fashioned, but men want to get the milk for free without buying the cow, and this whole wifey thing is BS! I also don’t believe in living together unless engaged and ready to marry, because I’m not gonna be playing house with a man! Women raise your standards and men will be forced to follow suit and step up to the plate to get the women they want and desire.

By: Lee-Lee

Lee-Lee — Tue, 26 May 2009 02:06:49 +0000

I think the list just goes back to the stereotypical BS that women have been fed for centuries. Men want a woman who can cook & clean, and throw it down in the bed room, but also intelligent and can hold a conversation.. yes yawwwnn those are the staples, my question is where are the high standards for men. Why can’t we as women have the same requirements for men. Black men want a woman with ass, so why can’t we require we only want a man with a big diCk? Why isn’t there a list that men should have to hold up to get a woman?? There are things that woman should be able to do to get or keep a man and men should have the same requirements put on them. I say that he has to be tall, fine, have a big ding ding and be able to provide with a J.O.B and his own s*hit! No drama and no mama’s boys!

By: Tha REAL DooK

Tha REAL DooK — Mon, 25 May 2009 20:17:04 +0000

These are all wonderful points from a female point of view..

From a male point of view, the biggest thing i can agree on is the tidiness of the home she lives in/shares… I dated a girl who had a crusty or two in a corner.. I know she meant well but…

Crazy thing is that after we seperated, i began to believe that she was good to me and i could’ve looked past it or worked w/ it.. I really enjoyed her company and i found out later she really liked me too… but i blew her off to SOCIETIES RULES and STANDARDs..

Now everyone has a fair chance at this good guy..

If I can leave anything behind here for the women of today, please allow the men of the world to get to know you, seriously.. What i see now is that women have grown to be so afraid of man that they’d rather keep to themselves, buy these wonderful toys and ignore God’s will all together…

Great guys have stereotyped good women because good women stereotype mostly all men..

By: nichoka2

nichoka2 — Fri, 13 Mar 2009 20:33:11 +0000

Ok, ladies, how do you do it, how do you improve your techniques if you are single? Tips?? Suggestions??

By: Dom

Dom — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 20:26:06 +0000

Yes x3. Totally agree. The only thing I have to add is make sure that ninja is worthy. You can be cooking cleaning and sexing it up, but what is his ass doing to keep you?

Can ya tell I just did all of this and had to stop and think, now wait, how the hell is this benefitial to me? Yeah.