Browsing all posts in September, 2009.

Always the Baby Mama But Never the Bride

You thought you were set for life. You popped out the seeds of a NBA multi-million dollar man. You know him better than he knows himself. Your break up two years ago wasn’t anything that you thought would last forever. Then one day you get a text from him, not a phone call, in person [...]

Jump Offs Exist (Even Knows This)

I woke up this morning to learn that the internet was in an uproar (well just black women on the internet) over’s new men’s blog It’s a Man’s World and its debut post “The Truth about Jump Offs” written by journalist/editor Jozen Cummings. Jozen is a friend and told me about the post before [...]

A Very Christian Wedding

I’m a sinner. I make no qualms about that, but I’m not as big a sinner as you’d think I am based on my writings. I didn’t smoke weed until this year and I’m almost 30. I only drink socially and have a cap of 2 drinks. If I have anymore than that my friends [...]

How To Get a Boyfriend

This makes me laugh. Let me learn how to do graphics and I’d put my own spin on this. – SG

The 5 Steps to Marriage

During a very heated debate with Manny, we found ourselves trying to our damnedest to pin down the order in which people meet, date and marry. After a couple drinks, some animated arguments, agreeing to disagree, here is what we came up with: Step #1 – Dating You’ve announced yourself as being in the market [...]